"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Prom Dilemma

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Okay, so I was seeing this 1 girl (went on 1 date) and it was a chill date, but nothing happened. So I called her to hangout a week later and she was up for it, but when I called to confirm the day of she said she was tired and we should hangout a following day. She started asking me about prom and thats when I asked her, she said yeah, but told me she just got into a relationship w/ her best friend a few days before I asked her. She said he doesn't want her going, so I NEXT'd her.

My prom is in 2 weeks, so I need to find a date fast. All the girls I know already have dates. I met this 1 girl a few months back at a party and we talked on AIM. She invited me to her sweet 16 which was last night so I went with my friends. I want to call her today to hangout tonight, but the thing is I barely know her so when would it be okay to ask her to prom? I need to secure a date soon!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bump...

ugh...I called her yesterday to hangout at like 4 (to hangout later that night) she said yah..gimme a call later tonight since I didn't have plans at the time. I called her back at 7, but she didn't pickup or call me back.

Should I call her tomorrow and ask to chill tuesday night? Should I bring up the fact she didn't pickup her phone or call back or just forget about it...?
 
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U don't have much time. Keep workin on this girl but Have a few others in your pocket too. And keep on truckin. Good luck findin a date. I just had a friend get turned down by 4 girls and then two days before prom a younger HB8 asked if he'd like to take her.... lucky SOB
 
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mpimpin said:
U don't have much time. Keep workin on this girl but Have a few others in your pocket too. And keep on truckin. Good luck findin a date. I just had a friend get turned down by 4 girls and then two days before prom a younger HB8 asked if he'd like to take her.... lucky SOB
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The thing is..I don't really have any other girls to ask besides her.
 
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