well since prom is in may ive got to start thinking about possible dates. i honestly dont like any girls in my grade(senior) and want to go with a hot sophomore girl. there are so many hot soph girls and ill have no competition. only problem is that i dont really know any of them. what should i do to get to know them and get a possible date because the soph class has the hottest girls by far. u think they would ever turn dow a senior guy? Because i know im pretty good looking but id be nervous ill be rejected by a soph. i really want to go with one of them so please post suggestions on how to meet them and get them to go to prom with me.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
um how about....approach one of them. No competition right 
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And whats up with you man. Your last sentence makes you sound more like a sophmore yourself then a senior. Talk like the man that you are, not the AFC that you used to be.
.And whats up with you man. Your last sentence makes you sound more like a sophmore yourself then a senior. Talk like the man that you are, not the AFC that you used to be.
Vigilante7
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AHAHAHA CLOWNED !!!!Originally posted by RaMar
um how about....approach one of them. No competition right
And whats up with you man. Your last sentence makes you sound more like a sophmore yourself then a senior. Talk like the man that you are, not the AFC that you used to be.
IMO, talk to ALOT OF GIRLS.....if you talk to one soph randomly, she will know that ur gonna ask her out to the prom, when u talk to many soph's,, shell see that there is competition and shell have to step her game up
WHO GIVES A FUK if ur good looking? if u act like a geek, that will show that looks mean nothing, u better start talking soon/////////and be seductive clown
TinyDancer
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I am a sophomore girl dating a senior, but just because he's a senior doesnt automatically make him hot stuff. It's a little different from freshman year when talking to a senior would have been a big deal just because they seem so much older and mature than the guys you went to school with before. By 10th grade the senior guys aren't such a novelty, especially since you've seen all of them as juniors the year before.
Anyway, I must say that just approaching someone in the hallway or at lunch would be a great deal awkward, and probably would leave her a little confused. She's been going to school with you for a year and a half, what took you so long? The absolute best way to meet and talk to these girls is by attending as many school related social and athletic events as possible. The athletic events are especially good, it's easy to start a conversation with someone sitting by you, and you automatically have something to talk about without conversation being difficult. Use your skills (C&F will be a big hit) and at the end of the game number close.
Oh, and it doesn't matter if they are always with their friends, flirt with all of them to keep them on their toes.
Anyway, I must say that just approaching someone in the hallway or at lunch would be a great deal awkward, and probably would leave her a little confused. She's been going to school with you for a year and a half, what took you so long? The absolute best way to meet and talk to these girls is by attending as many school related social and athletic events as possible. The athletic events are especially good, it's easy to start a conversation with someone sitting by you, and you automatically have something to talk about without conversation being difficult. Use your skills (C&F will be a big hit) and at the end of the game number close.
Oh, and it doesn't matter if they are always with their friends, flirt with all of them to keep them on their toes.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
now thats some good advice! No offence but usually the females on this board post exactly what the bible says not to do but accually feel the other way.Originally posted by TinyDancer
I am a sophomore girl dating a senior, but just because he's a senior doesnt automatically make him hot stuff. It's a little different from freshman year when talking to a senior would have been a big deal just because they seem so much older and mature than the guys you went to school with before. By 10th grade the senior guys aren't such a novelty, especially since you've seen all of them as juniors the year before.
Anyway, I must say that just approaching someone in the hallway or at lunch would be a great deal awkward, and probably would leave her a little confused. She's been going to school with you for a year and a half, what took you so long? The absolute best way to meet and talk to these girls is by attending as many school related social and athletic events as possible. The athletic events are especially good, it's easy to start a conversation with someone sitting by you, and you automatically have something to talk about without conversation being difficult. Use your skills (C&F will be a big hit) and at the end of the game number close.
Oh, and it doesn't matter if they are always with their friends, flirt with all of them to keep them on their toes.