"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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adam22

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well since prom is in may ive got to start thinking about possible dates. i honestly dont like any girls in my grade(senior) and want to go with a hot sophomore girl. there are so many hot soph girls and ill have no competition. only problem is that i dont really know any of them. what should i do to get to know them and get a possible date because the soph class has the hottest girls by far. u think they would ever turn dow a senior guy? Because i know im pretty good looking but id be nervous ill be rejected by a soph. i really want to go with one of them so please post suggestions on how to meet them and get them to go to prom with me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RaMar

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um how about....approach one of them. No competition right :).

And whats up with you man. Your last sentence makes you sound more like a sophmore yourself then a senior. Talk like the man that you are, not the AFC that you used to be.
 

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Originally posted by RaMar
um how about....approach one of them. No competition right :).

And whats up with you man. Your last sentence makes you sound more like a sophmore yourself then a senior. Talk like the man that you are, not the AFC that you used to be.
AHAHAHA CLOWNED !!!!

IMO, talk to ALOT OF GIRLS.....if you talk to one soph randomly, she will know that ur gonna ask her out to the prom, when u talk to many soph's,, shell see that there is competition and shell have to step her game up

WHO GIVES A FUK if ur good looking? if u act like a geek, that will show that looks mean nothing, u better start talking soon/////////and be seductive clown
 

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they are always in groups together and its kind of hard to go up to girls in the hallway and at lunch when they are on the move or with a bunch of their friends. u think they would just be happy since a senior approached them?
 

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I am a sophomore girl dating a senior, but just because he's a senior doesnt automatically make him hot stuff. It's a little different from freshman year when talking to a senior would have been a big deal just because they seem so much older and mature than the guys you went to school with before. By 10th grade the senior guys aren't such a novelty, especially since you've seen all of them as juniors the year before.

Anyway, I must say that just approaching someone in the hallway or at lunch would be a great deal awkward, and probably would leave her a little confused. She's been going to school with you for a year and a half, what took you so long? The absolute best way to meet and talk to these girls is by attending as many school related social and athletic events as possible. The athletic events are especially good, it's easy to start a conversation with someone sitting by you, and you automatically have something to talk about without conversation being difficult. Use your skills (C&F will be a big hit) and at the end of the game number close.

Oh, and it doesn't matter if they are always with their friends, flirt with all of them to keep them on their toes. ;)
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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RaMar

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Originally posted by TinyDancer
I am a sophomore girl dating a senior, but just because he's a senior doesnt automatically make him hot stuff. It's a little different from freshman year when talking to a senior would have been a big deal just because they seem so much older and mature than the guys you went to school with before. By 10th grade the senior guys aren't such a novelty, especially since you've seen all of them as juniors the year before.

Anyway, I must say that just approaching someone in the hallway or at lunch would be a great deal awkward, and probably would leave her a little confused. She's been going to school with you for a year and a half, what took you so long? The absolute best way to meet and talk to these girls is by attending as many school related social and athletic events as possible. The athletic events are especially good, it's easy to start a conversation with someone sitting by you, and you automatically have something to talk about without conversation being difficult. Use your skills (C&F will be a big hit) and at the end of the game number close.

Oh, and it doesn't matter if they are always with their friends, flirt with all of them to keep them on their toes. ;)
now thats some good advice! No offence but usually the females on this board post exactly what the bible says not to do but accually feel the other way.
 

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this thread freaks me out im in the exact same situation and our names are both adam! freaky ****, i cant really give any advice on this but good luck!
 
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