well since prom is in may ive got to start thinking about possible dates. i honestly dont like any girls in my grade(senior) and want to go with a hot sophomore girl. there are so many hot soph girls and ill have no competition. only problem is that i dont really know any of them. what should i do to get to know them and get a possible date because the soph class has the hottest girls by far. u think they would ever turn dow a senior guy? Because i know im pretty good looking but id be nervous ill be rejected by a soph. i really want to go with one of them so please post suggestions on how to meet them and get them to go to prom with me.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
um how about....approach one of them. No competition right 
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And whats up with you man. Your last sentence makes you sound more like a sophmore yourself then a senior. Talk like the man that you are, not the AFC that you used to be.
.And whats up with you man. Your last sentence makes you sound more like a sophmore yourself then a senior. Talk like the man that you are, not the AFC that you used to be.
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AHAHAHA CLOWNED !!!!Originally posted by RaMar
um how about....approach one of them. No competition right
And whats up with you man. Your last sentence makes you sound more like a sophmore yourself then a senior. Talk like the man that you are, not the AFC that you used to be.
IMO, talk to ALOT OF GIRLS.....if you talk to one soph randomly, she will know that ur gonna ask her out to the prom, when u talk to many soph's,, shell see that there is competition and shell have to step her game up
WHO GIVES A FUK if ur good looking? if u act like a geek, that will show that looks mean nothing, u better start talking soon/////////and be seductive clown
TinyDancer
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I am a sophomore girl dating a senior, but just because he's a senior doesnt automatically make him hot stuff. It's a little different from freshman year when talking to a senior would have been a big deal just because they seem so much older and mature than the guys you went to school with before. By 10th grade the senior guys aren't such a novelty, especially since you've seen all of them as juniors the year before.
Anyway, I must say that just approaching someone in the hallway or at lunch would be a great deal awkward, and probably would leave her a little confused. She's been going to school with you for a year and a half, what took you so long? The absolute best way to meet and talk to these girls is by attending as many school related social and athletic events as possible. The athletic events are especially good, it's easy to start a conversation with someone sitting by you, and you automatically have something to talk about without conversation being difficult. Use your skills (C&F will be a big hit) and at the end of the game number close.
Oh, and it doesn't matter if they are always with their friends, flirt with all of them to keep them on their toes.
Anyway, I must say that just approaching someone in the hallway or at lunch would be a great deal awkward, and probably would leave her a little confused. She's been going to school with you for a year and a half, what took you so long? The absolute best way to meet and talk to these girls is by attending as many school related social and athletic events as possible. The athletic events are especially good, it's easy to start a conversation with someone sitting by you, and you automatically have something to talk about without conversation being difficult. Use your skills (C&F will be a big hit) and at the end of the game number close.
Oh, and it doesn't matter if they are always with their friends, flirt with all of them to keep them on their toes.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
now thats some good advice! No offence but usually the females on this board post exactly what the bible says not to do but accually feel the other way.Originally posted by TinyDancer
I am a sophomore girl dating a senior, but just because he's a senior doesnt automatically make him hot stuff. It's a little different from freshman year when talking to a senior would have been a big deal just because they seem so much older and mature than the guys you went to school with before. By 10th grade the senior guys aren't such a novelty, especially since you've seen all of them as juniors the year before.
Anyway, I must say that just approaching someone in the hallway or at lunch would be a great deal awkward, and probably would leave her a little confused. She's been going to school with you for a year and a half, what took you so long? The absolute best way to meet and talk to these girls is by attending as many school related social and athletic events as possible. The athletic events are especially good, it's easy to start a conversation with someone sitting by you, and you automatically have something to talk about without conversation being difficult. Use your skills (C&F will be a big hit) and at the end of the game number close.
Oh, and it doesn't matter if they are always with their friends, flirt with all of them to keep them on their toes.