whatup. so i was at this party last night, everybody was pretty hammered, and i saw this girl tehre i was thinkin of askin to prom. when i approached her she said she already knew, i dont know how, and that she would have gone with me but she asked someone else cause i took too long. procrastination is the devil. anyway, i thought she was giving me a hint tho that she would have rather of gone with me, so i was wonder if any of you guys had advice on whether or not i should still pursue her. do you think persistence would make her peace this other guy out, or should i find someone else to go with? thanks, peace.
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Prom date-difficult situation
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fragmentor
Senior Don Juan
Find one really really HB to go with and have a good time making sure not to keep this girl in your mind. Ah the tool of jealousy. Love it.
wow, this is the relatively the same situation for me. still procrastinating here, ours is unofficially may 22. I don't wanna ask yet, since it might sound desperate.
When was yours annouced?
Forget this girl and get another.
When was yours annouced?
Forget this girl and get another.
CableLight
Master Don Juan
Blech...ours isnt till March 12th and I've still put off asking anyone...No rush 
Anyway...I guess its just generally accepted as "not cool" to try to steal someone else's prom date (stealing a girlfriend is a little different, though, I guess). Maybe afterwards or whatever you can try for the hook-up.
Whatever applies the boyant force to your seaward vessle...
Anyway...I guess its just generally accepted as "not cool" to try to steal someone else's prom date (stealing a girlfriend is a little different, though, I guess). Maybe afterwards or whatever you can try for the hook-up.
Whatever applies the boyant force to your seaward vessle...
ours is May 3rd. a few people started asking last month and I think that that's just ridiculous. Somebody asked me what I was doing a few weeks ago and I was just like, "It's ****ing February!" Only a desperate, desperate ***** would ask 3 months in advance.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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