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On a side note, I wouldn't get into anything serious with a girl before Valentine's day.

That holiday is a minefield that I will never celebrate again, whether that's a dealbreaker to some women or not.
That argument can be made for anytime of the year lol.
 

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not every girl is your ex lol.
Don't care.

Not every person who goes in the ocean gets bit by a shark - but I guarantee the ones who do think twice before going back in.

The upside is I get something I'm going to get anyway - sex.

The downside is I spend a lot of time and money to get broken up with because I didn't do enough to measure up to her unspoken standard.

What a value proposition that is...
 

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The fight with my ex ruined it for me. It was the one time I put effort in for the holiday, and it "wasn't enough".

So I'm just not gonna do it.
Seems like these women see you as a mark to be taken advantage of.
 

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Don't care.

Not every person who goes in the ocean gets bit by a shark - but I guarantee the ones who do think twice before going back in.

The upside is I get something I'm going to get anyway - sex.

The downside is I spend a lot of time and money to get broken up with because I didn't do enough to measure up to her unspoken standard.

What a value proposition that is...
bless your heart:(
 

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On a side note, I wouldn't get into anything serious with a girl before Valentine's day.

That holiday is a minefield that I will never celebrate again, whether that's a dealbreaker to some women or not.
There are a lot of motivated singles in January to start the year coming off of a crappy holiday season alone. If you start something up in January with a new woman, she won't have too many expectations for February 14 since the relationship hasn't been too long. What can she expect after 3-6 weeks? New women with a 3-6 week history would have some minor expectation of acknowledgment of the day.

I agree that Valentine's Day can be a major minefield.
 
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