"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Project T: How to Flirt with Girls my Examples

theSpeculator

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These examples are summaries of things I have done and said recently.

Example ONE

This girl was wearing an "I like to Drink" beer T-shirt. She's about a HB 8 dirty blonde hair tanned skin. Very hot. She was standing by the copy machine in our school computer lab when I approached her.

ME: *leaning in pointing at her shirt* "What does your shirt says?"

HER:*pulling her shirt looking down* "Oh it's just a tee shirt I got from Alaska blah blah" *starts giggling nervously*

Me: "OKay, do you drink a lot?"

HER: "Yes! I love to drink."

ME: *Looking more intently* "Do you get wild and crazy when you drink?"

HER: *laughing very hard and blushing* "No no I don't I don't get wild I'm not that type blah blah" *still laughing and blushing*

ME: "Then what's the point of drinking if you don't get wild"

HER: "blah blah blah I'm a good girl blah blah"

Note that this happen in front of her boyfriend who was sitting down a few feet away giving me an evil stare the whole time. LOL.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Example TWO

Me and a friend stop these two girls: a blonde and a brunette. About a 6-7 on my scale. After my friend was busy talking to the blond for a few minute I interrupted:

ME: "Do you think that when a girl smile at a guy and he doesn't smile back she would take it as a rejection?"

BLONDE: "uh I don't know, why did a girl smile at you?"

ME: "No, we were just wondering"

HER: "Well no I don't think so. I smile at people all the time because I'm friendly, it doesn't mean anything."

I can see what she's saying, but somehow I think she was speaking bull$h1ts.

ME: Okay I see......*PAUSE*

ME: *As I turn my head to face the brunette* "Hey, were you smiling at me?" *pointing at her*

BRUNETTE: *Starts laughing very hard and blushing*

I didn't notice until my friend pointed out that her face got very red. I mean very red. Her face was practically glowing red.

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thats not flirting at all, you might talk like that to anyone, when flirting you are showing romantic intrest, makeing subtle passes at the girl.
 
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