"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Project T: How to Flirt with Girls my Examples

theSpeculator

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These examples are summaries of things I have done and said recently.

Example ONE

This girl was wearing an "I like to Drink" beer T-shirt. She's about a HB 8 dirty blonde hair tanned skin. Very hot. She was standing by the copy machine in our school computer lab when I approached her.

ME: *leaning in pointing at her shirt* "What does your shirt says?"

HER:*pulling her shirt looking down* "Oh it's just a tee shirt I got from Alaska blah blah" *starts giggling nervously*

Me: "OKay, do you drink a lot?"

HER: "Yes! I love to drink."

ME: *Looking more intently* "Do you get wild and crazy when you drink?"

HER: *laughing very hard and blushing* "No no I don't I don't get wild I'm not that type blah blah" *still laughing and blushing*

ME: "Then what's the point of drinking if you don't get wild"

HER: "blah blah blah I'm a good girl blah blah"

Note that this happen in front of her boyfriend who was sitting down a few feet away giving me an evil stare the whole time. LOL.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Example TWO

Me and a friend stop these two girls: a blonde and a brunette. About a 6-7 on my scale. After my friend was busy talking to the blond for a few minute I interrupted:

ME: "Do you think that when a girl smile at a guy and he doesn't smile back she would take it as a rejection?"

BLONDE: "uh I don't know, why did a girl smile at you?"

ME: "No, we were just wondering"

HER: "Well no I don't think so. I smile at people all the time because I'm friendly, it doesn't mean anything."

I can see what she's saying, but somehow I think she was speaking bull$h1ts.

ME: Okay I see......*PAUSE*

ME: *As I turn my head to face the brunette* "Hey, were you smiling at me?" *pointing at her*

BRUNETTE: *Starts laughing very hard and blushing*

I didn't notice until my friend pointed out that her face got very red. I mean very red. Her face was practically glowing red.

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thats not flirting at all, you might talk like that to anyone, when flirting you are showing romantic intrest, makeing subtle passes at the girl.
 
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