"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I highly recommend that you do not give an unsolicited copy to anyone you work with, no matter how “ready” you think they might be.

In the wrong hands, misperceived and then talked about with others, it could snowball and seriously jeopardize what was once a positive employment/career situation for you.

Best to only hand out to men away from work, unless a man is specifically asking you for help.
Totally true...in today's radically sensitive world, this is a bad idea. I wouldn't even speak of it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I explained all this to my best friend...he rejected it proudly and has taken strides to show me that it is unnecessary. Ego.
Whatever.

Point is, they have to learn for themselves. Some people just can't or won't accept it.
 

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I gave one book to a friend who I've been coaching for a while. We've been talking about it. It's some harsh truth,
can be rough to have your illusions blown up, but he appreciates it.

I think the key to this is that they have to be somewhat ready to hear it.
 
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