"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hia...

Just thought I'd ask for some advice....

I'm chatting to a number of gals on dating websites who don't log on very frequently, ie, once every 2 or 3 days and then log off after 30mins.

It makes it very hard to get a conversation going in anything like real time.

We're having lots of fun and I don't believe I've made any schoolboy mistakes (yet). I was wondering how you guys deal with this and move things on a little bit without losing social value and forcing the issue?

Some have been going on for a number of weeks and others are new, ie, days old. I'm not chasing them up with loads of emails, I wait for their reply before I respond. Some replies I get can be short emails and others quite long. There's a lot of variety here.

Any ideas?

Cheers...Alkemizt
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm no expert but GET THEIR FVCKING PHONE NUMBER!? :yes:
 
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ha ha...under normal circumstances couldn't agree more and that's my usual move.

With these gals, I'm wanting to get more engagement and rapport going before getting the number. I don't consider that a couple of emails every 2 or 3 days is connection.

Going for the number close now is unlikely to produce the goods. Get more engagement first and the number close will be a cake walk :eek:)

Unless anyone feels different???
 
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Just be like "hey im not on here alot, maybe we could switch numbers an text if you like?"
 
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