"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alkemizt

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Hia...

Just thought I'd ask for some advice....

I'm chatting to a number of gals on dating websites who don't log on very frequently, ie, once every 2 or 3 days and then log off after 30mins.

It makes it very hard to get a conversation going in anything like real time.

We're having lots of fun and I don't believe I've made any schoolboy mistakes (yet). I was wondering how you guys deal with this and move things on a little bit without losing social value and forcing the issue?

Some have been going on for a number of weeks and others are new, ie, days old. I'm not chasing them up with loads of emails, I wait for their reply before I respond. Some replies I get can be short emails and others quite long. There's a lot of variety here.

Any ideas?

Cheers...Alkemizt
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WhitePimp

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I'm no expert but GET THEIR FVCKING PHONE NUMBER!? :yes:
 

Alkemizt

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ha ha...under normal circumstances couldn't agree more and that's my usual move.

With these gals, I'm wanting to get more engagement and rapport going before getting the number. I don't consider that a couple of emails every 2 or 3 days is connection.

Going for the number close now is unlikely to produce the goods. Get more engagement first and the number close will be a cake walk :eek:)

Unless anyone feels different???
 

Julian

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Just be like "hey im not on here alot, maybe we could switch numbers an text if you like?"
 
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