Two things..
1.Im 17 yrs old, havent had a girlfriend in years, and im getting sick and tired of being single. Ive recently made improvements to my image, change of style from "ghetto" to "preppy" to be vague. I've gotten alot of compliments from really good looking girls. One even said i was hot, which was kind of a first. It feels awesome being told you look good:yes: . But appearance is not my problem, it is my actions. I'm still too shy and lack the balls to make a move, even though ive been getting complimented 5 times a day! Why cant i think of what to say? Why am i such a p*ssy?!
2.Theres this girl in my class who i really like. I've hung out with her and her friends once, but thats it, only once, which was last week. All through out the year, the only interaction with her is: eye contact, smile, wave, hello or something..ALL YEAR LONG. I need to take this to the next level. Ive heard she is "kind of" seeing someone else but she told me she was single. I have her number but Im not too experienced with girls and deciding to call her to hang out ignites a war between what i want to do, and the consequences of doing that in my head. So thus, i havent called her to hang out yet, and i feel I've waited too long. I feel that if i make a sudden move that it will be awkward, and possibly scare her off. And right now my concerns are if im going to get punched in the face with a LJBF. Or some form of that. Can someone explain how to take this sort of relationship to the next level, and find out if she really likes me?
BTW Ive read tons of articles on here so please do not send me a link. Real DJ advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
1.Im 17 yrs old, havent had a girlfriend in years, and im getting sick and tired of being single. Ive recently made improvements to my image, change of style from "ghetto" to "preppy" to be vague. I've gotten alot of compliments from really good looking girls. One even said i was hot, which was kind of a first. It feels awesome being told you look good:yes: . But appearance is not my problem, it is my actions. I'm still too shy and lack the balls to make a move, even though ive been getting complimented 5 times a day! Why cant i think of what to say? Why am i such a p*ssy?!
2.Theres this girl in my class who i really like. I've hung out with her and her friends once, but thats it, only once, which was last week. All through out the year, the only interaction with her is: eye contact, smile, wave, hello or something..ALL YEAR LONG. I need to take this to the next level. Ive heard she is "kind of" seeing someone else but she told me she was single. I have her number but Im not too experienced with girls and deciding to call her to hang out ignites a war between what i want to do, and the consequences of doing that in my head. So thus, i havent called her to hang out yet, and i feel I've waited too long. I feel that if i make a sudden move that it will be awkward, and possibly scare her off. And right now my concerns are if im going to get punched in the face with a LJBF. Or some form of that. Can someone explain how to take this sort of relationship to the next level, and find out if she really likes me?
BTW Ive read tons of articles on here so please do not send me a link. Real DJ advice would be appreciated. Thanks!