"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just a year of consistent training starting weight 152.4

Current stats

Height 5'8
Weight 172.3

All maxes are with one rep

Max Squat 375
Max Bench 315
Max Deadlift 405

Did the routine in the Vault called "Where to Start" along with the eating. Hopefully this will motivate some people still got a long way to go

Front


Front Flexed


Back


Back Flexed


Give it another year and I'll be bigger

:yes: :yes: :yes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dude this is awesome! keep going! No such thing as too big , get it done brotha! I hear ya social leper, im 5 foot 8 and my back width has grown insane amounts in the past year same with my shoulders. But I havent been told its unattractive yet lol
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Good job. What were your starting stats?
2006 - 142
2007 - 148
2008 - 165
2009 - 147
2010 -153
2011 - 155
2012 - 158
2013 - Currently 174.3

Keep in mind I was consistent from early 2012 to now

Social_Leper said:
What are your goals
185-190Lbs lean muscle (like a bodybuilder) I dont really care about the girls since thats mostly mental
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In the "Where to start" thread there was a choice of option A or B, which one did you do?
 

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what were you doing between 2006-12? were you lifting? what changed?
good job though, good results
 

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betheman said:
what were you doing between 2006-12? were you lifting? what changed?
good job though, good results
I lifted on and off alot of messing around with no direction. Basically I would follow would trainer A told me, along with what I saw people in the gym do. So if I seen somebody lift x amount of weight I would try it to like an idiot. Was homeless for a bit, dated a BPD girl, and s fair share of other problems with the ladies. Ended up having a kid of my own (to which the mother packed up and left). It was a tough pill to swallow but I realized I had no direction. A friend of mine who trains young bodybuilders told me

"Your stopping and starting says alot about you. I've trained girls who weigh and lift more than you do! My guy (his body builder trainee who took 1st in our state) worked hard for 3 years! What have you done?! Worry about hitting your natural potential before even qualifying yourself of such nonsense. Dont mean to be harsh but its the truth take it or leave get big and improve or stay small and get left behind!" Needless to say that was the ambition I needed to put my focus 100% into lifting.
 

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Thanks man I'm getting bigger/ more leaner as of late
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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