Professional women from OLD. How did your first date go?

[GoldenArrow]

I find that first dates with professional women whom you match with online, are pretty boring, with very little chemistry. For me, these dates turn out to be platonic and a waste of time.

 

[biggoal]

I find that first dates with professional women whom you match with online, are pretty boring, with very little chemistry. For me, these dates turn out to be platonic and a waste of time.

That's how that HB9 was two weeks ago. She was pretty dull, stuck up, shy, and just uptight. Didn't smile a lot or joke. Basically what you just described in your post. She was a teacher at an really really expensive private school where the rich send their kids for college prep. At least in her own mind she was a legend and can't be seen where she lives out in public without being noticed. Our likes and such matched up pretty well too and both from the same city originaly so we had stuff in common and she only drank water. No beer.

 

[The Duke]

I've dated mostly professional women and never had these issues where I could form some broad conclusion. It depends on the person, and of course you!

 

[RickTheToad]

I find that first dates with professional women whom you match with online, are pretty boring, with very little chemistry. For me, these dates turn out to be platonic and a waste of time.

Reason being, if they are already high value, why the fvck would they be on OLD? They are there for attention or because they are bored. OLD is good for flings and sex; not much more. Look outside in the world.. You'd perform better.

 

[Hal9000]

Professional women tend to stay in their "work personality" when on a first date as they approach it more like a job interview than a potential romantic interaction. I find that putting them at ease (and a couple glasses of wine) goes a long way to getting them to relax so I can tell if they are worth my time.

 

[Barrister]

Maybe you’ve just had bad luck. In my experience professional women are the most fun in bed. Typically once they’ve gotten past the initial standoffish stage in the first date (honestly hasn’t lasted long in my experience) they really cut loose.