"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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beastmaster79

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i'm more than halfway through college but i'm really not into my studies and have been leaving **** till last minute lately. i'll tell myself to get the **** done but i end up wasting time on youtube, facebook, etc. i usually get done what i need to but its always when i'm under pressure and trying to beat that clock. this always stresses me out. i want to be able to relax without always having **** hanging over my head but i have trouble getting myself to do **** unless i really have to. any advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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joekerr31

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beastmaster79 said:
i'm more than halfway through college but i'm really not into my studies and have been leaving **** till last minute lately. i'll tell myself to get the **** done but i end up wasting time on youtube, facebook, etc. i usually get done what i need to but its always when i'm under pressure and trying to beat that clock. this always stresses me out. i want to be able to relax without always having **** hanging over my head but i have trouble getting myself to do **** unless i really have to. any advice?
ya take a year off. you are wasting your time right now.

college is suppose to be about being passionate about your future career - prepping yourself for the outside world. which you obviously aren't right now.

the weekends are for partying and banging chics. mon-fri you gotta treat college like a job.
 

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I used to procrastinate in my English class last year. I'd wait until the night before a paper was due to start writing it. I'd be up late, of course, but here's the thing: I always got the highest grade in the entire class on my paper!

So either I work well under pressure, or the rest of my class was retarded.

Go figure.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hard work pays off in the long run....but procrastination pays off now!
:)
 
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