"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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beastmaster79

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i'm more than halfway through college but i'm really not into my studies and have been leaving **** till last minute lately. i'll tell myself to get the **** done but i end up wasting time on youtube, facebook, etc. i usually get done what i need to but its always when i'm under pressure and trying to beat that clock. this always stresses me out. i want to be able to relax without always having **** hanging over my head but i have trouble getting myself to do **** unless i really have to. any advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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joekerr31

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beastmaster79 said:
i'm more than halfway through college but i'm really not into my studies and have been leaving **** till last minute lately. i'll tell myself to get the **** done but i end up wasting time on youtube, facebook, etc. i usually get done what i need to but its always when i'm under pressure and trying to beat that clock. this always stresses me out. i want to be able to relax without always having **** hanging over my head but i have trouble getting myself to do **** unless i really have to. any advice?
ya take a year off. you are wasting your time right now.

college is suppose to be about being passionate about your future career - prepping yourself for the outside world. which you obviously aren't right now.

the weekends are for partying and banging chics. mon-fri you gotta treat college like a job.
 

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I used to procrastinate in my English class last year. I'd wait until the night before a paper was due to start writing it. I'd be up late, of course, but here's the thing: I always got the highest grade in the entire class on my paper!

So either I work well under pressure, or the rest of my class was retarded.

Go figure.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hard work pays off in the long run....but procrastination pays off now!
:)
 
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