"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i'm more than halfway through college but i'm really not into my studies and have been leaving **** till last minute lately. i'll tell myself to get the **** done but i end up wasting time on youtube, facebook, etc. i usually get done what i need to but its always when i'm under pressure and trying to beat that clock. this always stresses me out. i want to be able to relax without always having **** hanging over my head but i have trouble getting myself to do **** unless i really have to. any advice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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beastmaster79 said:
i'm more than halfway through college but i'm really not into my studies and have been leaving **** till last minute lately. i'll tell myself to get the **** done but i end up wasting time on youtube, facebook, etc. i usually get done what i need to but its always when i'm under pressure and trying to beat that clock. this always stresses me out. i want to be able to relax without always having **** hanging over my head but i have trouble getting myself to do **** unless i really have to. any advice?
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ya take a year off. you are wasting your time right now.

college is suppose to be about being passionate about your future career - prepping yourself for the outside world. which you obviously aren't right now.

the weekends are for partying and banging chics. mon-fri you gotta treat college like a job.
 
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I used to procrastinate in my English class last year. I'd wait until the night before a paper was due to start writing it. I'd be up late, of course, but here's the thing: I always got the highest grade in the entire class on my paper!

So either I work well under pressure, or the rest of my class was retarded.

Go figure.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hard work pays off in the long run....but procrastination pays off now!
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