Procrastinating

[Gammergq]

I always feel that I am not ready to approach and that I have to learn somwthing more what should I do to combat this problem?

 

[AmazingTricks]

You'll learn [much] more by approaching.

 

[DavenJuan]

I always feel that I am not ready to approach and that I have to learn somwthing more what should I do to combat this problem?

couple things to remember when you start feeling like this..

1. we ALL felt like that at some point or atleast most of us

2. there is ALWAYS something more to learn and get better in your game

3. the most IMPORTANT THING to remember is you ONLY get better with practice. dont put so much pressure on yourself. look at it as a numbers game. the more ppl you approach and the more ppl that turn you DOWN, the closer you are to accomplishing whatever it is you want to get out of the approach.

for me, i would ENJOY the no's sometimes. it gave me practice, something for me to get better at.

have fun, dont THINK, and just do it.

and by all means... DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL

 

[MacAvoy]

We have the perfect solution for you. Its designed to get newby's comfortable with approaching and dating. It starts off small with just making eye contact and slowly escalating after that.

Its called Don Juan Boot Camp. Its the 4th option on the list, you can either view it as a PDF or a Word file.

Good luck and start reading the bible (3rd from the bottom) while your at it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I always feel that I am not ready to approach and that I have to learn somwthing more what should I do to combat this problem?

Realize that it's not the lack of information that's holding you back, you'll never know everything. You need to learn how to feel confident that you will survive if you're not 100% successful.