"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Procrasination

djweses89

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yea i know this site deals with how to pick up women and things of that nature, but those same things that we do to make ourselfs better at meeting women is also ways that help improve just our overall status and confidence in life not just women, now I need some advice and I'm going out on a limb with that statement i just made hopeing someone can help me with procrastination because i have a big problem with it and im graduating high school in a few weeks hopefully if i don't procrastinate anything and j/w if anyone knew some mind tricks or tips that can get me out of being that way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kreuz

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Dear djweses89,

My friend the simple answer to help with procrastination is to just do whatever you have to do right away. I used to always wait until the last minute to do everything, but if you just get to work right away you actually will get it done. The thing with procrastination is that by putting it off, you just feed the beast, and make it stronger. Somewhat of a snowball rolling downhill kind of thing, the longer you wait the harder it will be to stop it in the end.

Just what I have learned from my own experiences when I was a whee-little tatter tot. Also being active will help. I found I got more things done and stopped procrastinating when I had other things to do, such as a job, in a steady relationship (as an example), and things along those lines.

Keep it real, keep your head up, and just get your shizzle done as soon as possible.
 
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