"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Procrasination

djweses89

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yea i know this site deals with how to pick up women and things of that nature, but those same things that we do to make ourselfs better at meeting women is also ways that help improve just our overall status and confidence in life not just women, now I need some advice and I'm going out on a limb with that statement i just made hopeing someone can help me with procrastination because i have a big problem with it and im graduating high school in a few weeks hopefully if i don't procrastinate anything and j/w if anyone knew some mind tricks or tips that can get me out of being that way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kreuz

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Dear djweses89,

My friend the simple answer to help with procrastination is to just do whatever you have to do right away. I used to always wait until the last minute to do everything, but if you just get to work right away you actually will get it done. The thing with procrastination is that by putting it off, you just feed the beast, and make it stronger. Somewhat of a snowball rolling downhill kind of thing, the longer you wait the harder it will be to stop it in the end.

Just what I have learned from my own experiences when I was a whee-little tatter tot. Also being active will help. I found I got more things done and stopped procrastinating when I had other things to do, such as a job, in a steady relationship (as an example), and things along those lines.

Keep it real, keep your head up, and just get your shizzle done as soon as possible.
 
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