"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Procrasination

djweses89

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yea i know this site deals with how to pick up women and things of that nature, but those same things that we do to make ourselfs better at meeting women is also ways that help improve just our overall status and confidence in life not just women, now I need some advice and I'm going out on a limb with that statement i just made hopeing someone can help me with procrastination because i have a big problem with it and im graduating high school in a few weeks hopefully if i don't procrastinate anything and j/w if anyone knew some mind tricks or tips that can get me out of being that way.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kreuz

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Dear djweses89,

My friend the simple answer to help with procrastination is to just do whatever you have to do right away. I used to always wait until the last minute to do everything, but if you just get to work right away you actually will get it done. The thing with procrastination is that by putting it off, you just feed the beast, and make it stronger. Somewhat of a snowball rolling downhill kind of thing, the longer you wait the harder it will be to stop it in the end.

Just what I have learned from my own experiences when I was a whee-little tatter tot. Also being active will help. I found I got more things done and stopped procrastinating when I had other things to do, such as a job, in a steady relationship (as an example), and things along those lines.

Keep it real, keep your head up, and just get your shizzle done as soon as possible.
 
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