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Im gonna keep this as simple as possible since the situation is quite complicated . But I really need some help here .
I'm 19 , freshman , dating this chinese girl who's a virgin , shes 18 .
Sexually we've gone pretty far for her standards and we did stuff she has never with any other guy , like getting her vagina touched , fingering me , etc etc.
Today we had this fight and I want you guys to tell me what I should do about this . She usually gets really jealous of me hanging out with other girls so I was going out with one of my homies and I lied to her that this girl that she hates came along with my friend and went out with us . And when I got back , I texted her that I was back and she was like 'I'm in so and so place , can you come ? ' and I said no I'm with my friend and the girl , so she shouldn't wait for me. And then I told her im dropping the girl back to her hall . She got really mad and was like ive been waiting her for so long and I waited for you even after you asked me not to and blah blah blah . I was like , okay whatever .
And then later she sent me these really texts ''You have time to go out to eat, flirt with other girl and walk her back to her hall yet you don't have any time for your girl friend who's been waitibg for you and went back to her hall because you told her to and said you are gonna meet up
waiting
''. Then we did meet cuz she kept calling me and had an argument , we kept arguing about this at mc.d for like an hour and in the end , just to end it , cuz she said like the same **** 20 times, i said im sorry for ''choosing' that girl over you since thats what she felt . and then she started to kiss me and after that out of nowhere she started arguing about something else and was like 'you should tell me about your plans more to avoid arguments like these' ,'im not like you exes , we're a big part of each others lives' , again I was fukin annoyed but didn't exactly want her to have her way so I said , we could have avoided the fight if you told me u were gonna wait for me anyways which u didn't so u should tell me about your plans too (which she kinda already does , without me asking) . After this , we made out for like an hour and talked about sexual stuff and i just got back to my room .
My main question is , since the night didn't end so bad , was the apology worth it ? Or did I somehow give her 'power' by doing this ? thoughts?
I'm 19 , freshman , dating this chinese girl who's a virgin , shes 18 .
Sexually we've gone pretty far for her standards and we did stuff she has never with any other guy , like getting her vagina touched , fingering me , etc etc.
Today we had this fight and I want you guys to tell me what I should do about this . She usually gets really jealous of me hanging out with other girls so I was going out with one of my homies and I lied to her that this girl that she hates came along with my friend and went out with us . And when I got back , I texted her that I was back and she was like 'I'm in so and so place , can you come ? ' and I said no I'm with my friend and the girl , so she shouldn't wait for me. And then I told her im dropping the girl back to her hall . She got really mad and was like ive been waiting her for so long and I waited for you even after you asked me not to and blah blah blah . I was like , okay whatever .
And then later she sent me these really texts ''You have time to go out to eat, flirt with other girl and walk her back to her hall yet you don't have any time for your girl friend who's been waitibg for you and went back to her hall because you told her to and said you are gonna meet up
waiting
''. Then we did meet cuz she kept calling me and had an argument , we kept arguing about this at mc.d for like an hour and in the end , just to end it , cuz she said like the same **** 20 times, i said im sorry for ''choosing' that girl over you since thats what she felt . and then she started to kiss me and after that out of nowhere she started arguing about something else and was like 'you should tell me about your plans more to avoid arguments like these' ,'im not like you exes , we're a big part of each others lives' , again I was fukin annoyed but didn't exactly want her to have her way so I said , we could have avoided the fight if you told me u were gonna wait for me anyways which u didn't so u should tell me about your plans too (which she kinda already does , without me asking) . After this , we made out for like an hour and talked about sexual stuff and i just got back to my room .
My main question is , since the night didn't end so bad , was the apology worth it ? Or did I somehow give her 'power' by doing this ? thoughts?