I have been living with my "main" girlfriend for a while now. I am not totally convinced that she is the one yet so I still never turn down opportunities to meet new women and most of the time I will explain my situation when I meet new girls. You'd be surprised how many girls take it as a challenge to try and take a man away from his woman. Anyway, I met this hb9 a few months ago Initially it it started off slow we hung out more as friends, then one day we ended up sleeping together. I was honest with this girl that I was living with someone else she wasn't really cool with being my #2 but eventually she caved in. Around the time I started having sex with this new girl I started having problems with my live in girl and we separated for a bit but she ended up coming back after about a month. In that time I started spending a lot more time with the new girl and started to fall for her. I didn't tell her that my old girl had returned home though. So this past week we had our first fight because I didn't remember to call and say goodnight to her. I felt she was being to needy and told her I wasn't to happy about that. She took this really personally and wouldn't talk to me for 3 days. We finally spoke yesterday I tried to apologize for upsetting her but she has decided that it's not going to work because she is an emotional, needy girl and it's not fair to me. Normally I would be greatful that I didn't have to be the badguy and end things. But I don't know if it's my ego not letting me accept the fact that I got dumped or I actually have genuine feelings for this girl. I can't stop thinking about her and I send her text messages all the time so I can have a face to face conversation with her. She refuses because she says it will be too painful. I also admitted that my live in girlfriend has returned home and she started crying and calling herself a "homewrecker" I mean this girl knew what she was getting into when she got involved with me, why the sudden change of feelings? Should I just let this one go or is there any reason or hope of salvaging this mess. I know what goes around comes around and a lot of guys will laugh and say that the player got a taste of his own medicine, but lets be real 90% of men are only as faithful as their options! If you can have your cake and eat it too, why not?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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Problems of juggling 2 women
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Why are you shacking up with women you're not married to? How old are you? What do you do for a living? - Strike 1.
You call to say good night? You apologized after telling her not to be needy? You text her more than twice a day?
No, a smart player never has anything come back around to bite him, because he's smart. I really hope you use condoms religiously. Are you looking to get laid? Or just be a pseudo-player?
Stop giving them b1tches so much attention, thats what they want, and why would you want to salvage anything you call a "mess?"
And please, learn to space out your body of text, its a pain to read.
You call to say good night? You apologized after telling her not to be needy? You text her more than twice a day?
No, a smart player never has anything come back around to bite him, because he's smart. I really hope you use condoms religiously. Are you looking to get laid? Or just be a pseudo-player?
Stop giving them b1tches so much attention, thats what they want, and why would you want to salvage anything you call a "mess?"
And please, learn to space out your body of text, its a pain to read.
Cheating on your girlfriend is not cool, unless she knows that you are and will continue to sleep around on her, and sticks around. Your rationale is laughable at best.
I definitely agree with Flex, why live with a girl you're not serious about? I don't see how you can support that thought process.
Anyway, as to your question, you've left out a lot of pretty important details, but my guess is that it will come back to cheating on the girl you live with. The second girl probably realized that she'd be dumb to keep up relations with you. If you want to follow what the DJ bible would tell you, it's that you should stop calling her and see if she keeps up contact (which I'm guessing will be no).
I definitely agree with Flex, why live with a girl you're not serious about? I don't see how you can support that thought process.
Anyway, as to your question, you've left out a lot of pretty important details, but my guess is that it will come back to cheating on the girl you live with. The second girl probably realized that she'd be dumb to keep up relations with you. If you want to follow what the DJ bible would tell you, it's that you should stop calling her and see if she keeps up contact (which I'm guessing will be no).
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.