davidsonj73
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For about four years I have been trying to learn the guitar, but still don't have any of the chords down. What should I do? Any advice?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Problems learning guitar
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
BillyPilgrim
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Practice lol. Are you talking basic major and minor chords? Start with open fret, build callouses and move on to barre chords
ManFromTartarus
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I'm a guitar teacher & this is my advice.
If you've been at it for *FOUR* years and you don't have *ANY* of the chords down, then you're either not practicing or music isn't your passion. Otherwise you would have at least learned one song, most rock, blues, country, & pop tunes only have 3 chords.
As a tip I'll share this, I start many of my students learning major chords in the first position. Learn major chords E-A-D, there are literally hundreds of songs using this progression (ie: Panama-Van Halen, What I like about you-the Romantics). As you learn more songs you will have to learn more chords.
Otherwise there are literally tons of instructional vids on YouTube for beginner guitar.
If you've been at it for *FOUR* years and you don't have *ANY* of the chords down, then you're either not practicing or music isn't your passion. Otherwise you would have at least learned one song, most rock, blues, country, & pop tunes only have 3 chords.
As a tip I'll share this, I start many of my students learning major chords in the first position. Learn major chords E-A-D, there are literally hundreds of songs using this progression (ie: Panama-Van Halen, What I like about you-the Romantics). As you learn more songs you will have to learn more chords.
Otherwise there are literally tons of instructional vids on YouTube for beginner guitar.
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davidsonj73
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@ManFromTartarus I don't think it's my passion. It sounded fun, by it reality, it wasn't so much for me.
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If you want to get up on stage at a coffee shop somewhere and entertain, just learn a few simple chords and riffs and become a Great Singer. Yes, practice and learn how to sing a few good songs and your ability to sing great will pretty much balance out your mediocre guitar ability.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.