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Problems learning guitar

davidsonj73

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For about four years I have been trying to learn the guitar, but still don't have any of the chords down. What should I do? Any advice?
 

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Practice lol. Are you talking basic major and minor chords? Start with open fret, build callouses and move on to barre chords
 

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I'm a guitar teacher & this is my advice.

If you've been at it for *FOUR* years and you don't have *ANY* of the chords down, then you're either not practicing or music isn't your passion. Otherwise you would have at least learned one song, most rock, blues, country, & pop tunes only have 3 chords.

As a tip I'll share this, I start many of my students learning major chords in the first position. Learn major chords E-A-D, there are literally hundreds of songs using this progression (ie: Panama-Van Halen, What I like about you-the Romantics). As you learn more songs you will have to learn more chords.

Otherwise there are literally tons of instructional vids on YouTube for beginner guitar.
 
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davidsonj73

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I'm a guitar teacher & this is my advice.

If you've been at it for *FOUR* years and you don't have *ANY* of the chords down, then you're either not practicing or music isn't your passion. Otherwise you would have at least learned one song, most rock, blues, country, & pop tunes only have 3 chords.

As a tip I'll share this, I start many of my students learning major chords in the first position. Learn major chords E-A-D, there are literally hundreds of songs using this progression (ie: Panama-Van Halen, What I like about you-the Romantics). As you learn more songs you will have to learn more chords.

Otherwise there are literally tons of instructional vids on YouTube for beginner guitar.
@ManFromTartarus I don't think it's my passion. It sounded fun, by it reality, it wasn't so much for me.
 

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If you want to get up on stage at a coffee shop somewhere and entertain, just learn a few simple chords and riffs and become a Great Singer. Yes, practice and learn how to sing a few good songs and your ability to sing great will pretty much balance out your mediocre guitar ability.
 
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