"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Problems lasting long lately

MattR1984

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So as some know I'm a month out of a 3 month relationship and since then have nailed 4 new girls. The first time I had sex with the long term girl it was long and she came I didn't feel like I even had to. The next girl after her the same.

So my last three (one last Thursday, she was about a 6) I came really early. I couldn't help it and thought it was probably a fluke. It wasn't.

So I pulled a brand new one and I'm talking she's a hard 8 but probably more like a 9 and we went out twice and I banged her about an hour ago. At first I couldn't get hard, she kept playing with it and we got lube and it finally happen and then I came like 1 minute into it :/ what the hell is wrong with me latley? I've never had this problem. My exercise habits haven't changed or my diet. Maybe there was too much work up to this new girl or the fact that she was smoking hot and it took like 45 minutes of fooling around on the bed for it to happen.

Thoughts gentlemen? Positive outlook on this is I was really down at the beginning of November and I'm back in the game very much so this last girl being hotter them my long term ex makes me not even think about her, but the short sex is not going to help keep these plates around.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheException

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MattR1984 said:
So as some know I'm a month out of a 3 month relationship and since then have nailed 4 new girls. The first time I had sex with the long term girl it was long and she came I didn't feel like I even had to. The next girl after her the same.

So my last three (one last Thursday, she was about a 6) I came really early. I couldn't help it and thought it was probably a fluke. It wasn't.

So I pulled a brand new one and I'm talking she's a hard 8 but probably more like a 9 and we went out twice and I banged her about an hour ago. At first I couldn't get hard, she kept playing with it and we got lube and it finally happen and then I came like 1 minute into it :/ what the hell is wrong with me latley? I've never had this problem. My exercise habits haven't changed or my diet. Maybe there was too much work up to this new girl or the fact that she was smoking hot and it took like 45 minutes of fooling around on the bed for it to happen.

Thoughts gentlemen? Positive outlook on this is I was really down at the beginning of November and I'm back in the game very much so this last girl being hotter them my long term ex makes me not even think about her, but the short sex is not going to help keep these plates around.
Blowing early is often just lack of control. Control your breathing and don't think about what your d1ck feels like. That tends to just heighten the sensation.

The flaccid problem is no doubt nervousness because you're with someone new and she is smoking.
 

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Stop wacking off - pop a d!ck pill from the gas station. Happens to me every once in a while - especially when I DONT feel like banging.
 

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MattR1984 said:
So as some know I'm a month out of a 3 month relationship and since then have nailed 4 new girls. The first time I had sex with the long term girl it was long and she came I didn't feel like I even had to. The next girl after her the same.

So my last three (one last Thursday, she was about a 6) I came really early. I couldn't help it and thought it was probably a fluke. It wasn't.

So I pulled a brand new one and I'm talking she's a hard 8 but probably more like a 9 and we went out twice and I banged her about an hour ago. At first I couldn't get hard, she kept playing with it and we got lube and it finally happen and then I came like 1 minute into it :/ what the hell is wrong with me latley? I've never had this problem. My exercise habits haven't changed or my diet. Maybe there was too much work up to this new girl or the fact that she was smoking hot and it took like 45 minutes of fooling around on the bed for it to happen.

Thoughts gentlemen? Positive outlook on this is I was really down at the beginning of November and I'm back in the game very much so this last girl being hotter them my long term ex makes me not even think about her, but the short sex is not going to help keep these plates around.


No sh!t I can advice you in your own problems, it's like I'm inside your head. All I can do is tell you what I learned about myself.

Sex is inside your head, if you cvm early it's not d!ck problem it's the way your head works. I stole my uncle's wife and fvcked her, at first I couldn't even cvm while she came several times and got all tired and sh!t. Then as time went by and I developed feelings for that girl I started to cvm real quick. I looked back into my past and realized that I cvm quick when I care for a girl. When I don't give a sh!t and she's just a fling I last. :flowers:

Here is a conundrum, I need to care for a person to feel complete, but then I don't satisfy her and my actions push her away. I'm yet to solve this thing, cuz when I'm alone I'm empty.
 

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She hit me up an hour ago and wants to eat lunch so I guess it wasn't a total deal breaker haha! Whatever. I'll try not to think about anything and keep a clear head next time. This has happened to me before months back but it was because I took Adderall before going to the bar. Man I wish I had a viagra hook up! Anyone in the Austin TX area hahaha
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dgwizdal

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MattR1984 said:
She hit me up an hour ago and wants to eat lunch so I guess it wasn't a total deal breaker haha! Whatever. I'll try not to think about anything and keep a clear head next time. This has happened to me before months back but it was because I took Adderall before going to the bar. Man I wish I had a viagra hook up! Anyone in the Austin TX area hahaha
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