"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I had been with this girl for a long time on and off she broke my heart i went trough a couple of phases after the last break up.
such as, sadness, feeling worthless, couldn't thing, straight etc.
Now out of the blue I'm thinking about her and i miss her and is like if i wan to go back it's driving me crazy
please help
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this phase will pass.
its the "wanting them back " phase.
dont let it get you down, just bear with it knowing it will pass.

go occupy yourself with other things.
hobbies, new chicks, anything else ok
 
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is not that easy i tried it when i have nothing to do it comes back
 
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i know
oh boy dont i know haha

trust me , even if its so very hard
remember its a phase
it will pass
 
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well i must saty strong thanks how long does it take did you ever feel like you were about to go back
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by wiseman
well i must saty strong thanks how long does it take did you ever feel like you were about to go back
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was different for different ex's
how much my heart was involved
 
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a girl........

wise man,

I was in the same boat, about 6 months ago.

The 'girl of my dreams' dumped me, because, I would not marry her.

It will take some time, but, one day you will have her behind you.

Trust me.

cave dweller
 
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thanks guys it means a lot
 
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