"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I had been with this girl for a long time on and off she broke my heart i went trough a couple of phases after the last break up.
such as, sadness, feeling worthless, couldn't thing, straight etc.
Now out of the blue I'm thinking about her and i miss her and is like if i wan to go back it's driving me crazy
please help
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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this phase will pass.
its the "wanting them back " phase.
dont let it get you down, just bear with it knowing it will pass.

go occupy yourself with other things.
hobbies, new chicks, anything else ok
 
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is not that easy i tried it when i have nothing to do it comes back
 
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i know
oh boy dont i know haha

trust me , even if its so very hard
remember its a phase
it will pass
 
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well i must saty strong thanks how long does it take did you ever feel like you were about to go back
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by wiseman
well i must saty strong thanks how long does it take did you ever feel like you were about to go back
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was different for different ex's
how much my heart was involved
 
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a girl........

wise man,

I was in the same boat, about 6 months ago.

The 'girl of my dreams' dumped me, because, I would not marry her.

It will take some time, but, one day you will have her behind you.

Trust me.

cave dweller
 
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thanks guys it means a lot
 
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