"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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problem with keeping a straight face

ligyron

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seriously. i can not keep a straight face, ever. i was always like this, and i think it's the main reason i lose respect a lot. i think this is the major thing holding me back

if something slightly funny comes into my mind, or i try to say something serious, or i get any kind of look, i start to smile like an idiot. most people are straight faced all the time, and when something genuinely funny happens, they will laugh or smile, but i uncontrollably smile/laugh at everything, which makes it impossible to be a man.

ive always had this problem, any help to overcome it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SaucyBoy

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Is this really a problem? Sounds like you are bubbly.

Hey a MAN is bubbly when HE FREAKING FEELS LIKE IT.

Go out and have fun. You'll wonder what happened to it when you are 50. Don't loose it, have fun with it.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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smiling is way better than keeping serious.. your problem could be a talent.
 

Obsidian

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yeah i'm the same way, and i hate those f*cking stone-faced people. People seriously need to relax sometimes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ligyron said:
problem with keeping a straight face
I have the solution!! Just carry around a carpenter's "level" to measure your horizontal, and you'll be ok!
 
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