"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Problem with Interest and Continuing

Fly By Night

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So this one hb8 i went on a couple dates with does not really show signs that she is interested, but I offered to hang out later the next day. I doubt I want to continue chasing someone who doesn't even like me back, but then again I was kinda weird on the dates we've been on (it's just who I am). She keeps saying she doesn't mind hanging out again, but then on facebook she posts a not so encouraging status (sort of implied disappointment). I want to know if I should just go for another night out with her or start to let go.

PS I should have texted her earlier for a date so that might be why she posted that on fb, lol whoops.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Leopold

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I dont know but I have a hard time believing it's a HB8.... But anyhow...

Why are you even bothering with this? She showed so signs of attraction... why waste your time?

And dont act weird man... its a turnoff. Its way better to LET IT ALL OUT (actions of course NOT EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS) than keeping them inside and making you uncomfortable and thinking its weird.
 

Fly By Night

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Wait, how is it hard to believe? :confused:

But thanks for the advice, I decided to just let it go. I have pretty much just started asking girls on dates, so it should be for the best to just get more practice in.
 

Htienvu

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If you think she has low interest then chances are she has low interest, trust your guts on these issues because 90% of the time it's right. Distance yourself from her before you invest too much.
 
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