"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Problem with Interest and Continuing

Fly By Night

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So this one hb8 i went on a couple dates with does not really show signs that she is interested, but I offered to hang out later the next day. I doubt I want to continue chasing someone who doesn't even like me back, but then again I was kinda weird on the dates we've been on (it's just who I am). She keeps saying she doesn't mind hanging out again, but then on facebook she posts a not so encouraging status (sort of implied disappointment). I want to know if I should just go for another night out with her or start to let go.

PS I should have texted her earlier for a date so that might be why she posted that on fb, lol whoops.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Leopold

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I dont know but I have a hard time believing it's a HB8.... But anyhow...

Why are you even bothering with this? She showed so signs of attraction... why waste your time?

And dont act weird man... its a turnoff. Its way better to LET IT ALL OUT (actions of course NOT EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS) than keeping them inside and making you uncomfortable and thinking its weird.
 

Fly By Night

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Wait, how is it hard to believe? :confused:

But thanks for the advice, I decided to just let it go. I have pretty much just started asking girls on dates, so it should be for the best to just get more practice in.
 

Htienvu

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If you think she has low interest then chances are she has low interest, trust your guts on these issues because 90% of the time it's right. Distance yourself from her before you invest too much.
 
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