"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Problem with girl who i likes sister

bman

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so theres this girl ive liked for a while, shes a friend of a friend so i just flirt with her but havent made a move yet. she flirts back with me too. we were at the bar a few weeks ago and she brough her sister and i figured i would be nice to her sister because if she puts in a good word for me its even better. so then i just found out her sister wants me now. i'm not interested in her sister at all, the girl told my friend shes bringing her sister when we hang out to see if me and her "hit it off". what do you think i should do? i would say im pretty much ****ed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wiesman44

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thats what u get for being a dumba$$ and not putting a move on the chick u like in the first place
 

bman

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you do have a point, but my reasoning is because she hangs out all the time and i didnt want it to be ackward.
 
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