so theres this girl ive liked for a while, shes a friend of a friend so i just flirt with her but havent made a move yet. she flirts back with me too. we were at the bar a few weeks ago and she brough her sister and i figured i would be nice to her sister because if she puts in a good word for me its even better. so then i just found out her sister wants me now. i'm not interested in her sister at all, the girl told my friend shes bringing her sister when we hang out to see if me and her "hit it off". what do you think i should do? i would say im pretty much ****ed.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Problem with girl who i likes sister
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