"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Problem w friends

Anaxibios

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I'm sorry that this is slightly off topic, it has more to do with general relationships/friendships than with women specifically.

I am in a residence at university, and i've made some decent friends on another floor. Things were going well until one of the girls got angry with me (nothing romantic, just we had a big disagreement and she took it personally).

I have a good time when this person isn't there, but when she is i get a nervous feeling and find it hard to be myself. Consequently, i am worried that my other friends are getting tired of me. I realize that i shouldn't worry about what she thinks, but it is very disconcerting to hang around someone who seems to be disgusted with you. I am wondering if anyone has an idea how to become more comfortable in this situation and get back to having fun w these people.

I have read a lot of this site and greatly appreciate its advice; the women side of my life has improved dramatically of late.

Thank you for reading this and for any advice you can give.

Anaxibios
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NewMan

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Why don't you approach the girl who you had the argument with?

Talk things over - and agree to disagree?
 

Anaxibios

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Heh yeah, you're probably right... I had kind of figured that out, I guess i just needed someone to give me a kick in the pants... unfortunately since there is a bit of history it's kind of nerve-wracking... still, i guess that's what this site is all about
 

Wiesman44

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if your friends are getting tired of you, they're not your friends. I know when i was living in dorms, i met some people around me that i become acquaintances with, but they never turned out to be my friends. They didnt earn that right. Do you think they've earned the right to be your friend ? B/c if they havent, then go find new ones. You deserve it.
 
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