"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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gambit21680

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I have a serious problem that i have to resolve right now. I have a problem where i will get a job then for like a week or a few months find something wrong with it and quit i have already been in 12 jobs and the longest i have been at a job was 3 years when i was 16 i am now 25 about to get married and can't seem to keep a job. i always use the excuse that my dad is the same way and he is but i want to stop and be able to keep a job and move up. Any help will be appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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spider_007

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well first of all, why do you quit??

do you get bored?

is it something seriosly wrong with the job?

do you like working?

......


or is it just that your lazy and don't feel like keeping a job?
 

gambit21680

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I think its because i am to lazy to keep a job and don't feel like working just like my dad and i am to fixed on trying to get away and move out
 

spider_007

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well that's a contradiction right there. Haw are you gona get away and move out if you don't have a job/your own money.

No job is perfect (not even managing a strip club:D ). If your lazy now, then you'd probably be lazy even if you owed a buisness. there are tree ways of getting money; receive it from somebody (lottery, inheratance...), get a job and earn it, or own a buisness and earn it.

you might want to try and find your self a carrier in something you like.

Or you can be a bum for the rest of your life living of somebody elses misery.:down:
 

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Quit being a pvssy and deal with it. Everyone else has to.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by gambit21680
I think its because i am to lazy to keep a job and don't feel like working just like my dad and i am to fixed on trying to get away and move out
Work as a lifeguard...
 
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