"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gambit21680

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I have a serious problem that i have to resolve right now. I have a problem where i will get a job then for like a week or a few months find something wrong with it and quit i have already been in 12 jobs and the longest i have been at a job was 3 years when i was 16 i am now 25 about to get married and can't seem to keep a job. i always use the excuse that my dad is the same way and he is but i want to stop and be able to keep a job and move up. Any help will be appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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spider_007

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well first of all, why do you quit??

do you get bored?

is it something seriosly wrong with the job?

do you like working?

......


or is it just that your lazy and don't feel like keeping a job?
 

gambit21680

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I think its because i am to lazy to keep a job and don't feel like working just like my dad and i am to fixed on trying to get away and move out
 

spider_007

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well that's a contradiction right there. Haw are you gona get away and move out if you don't have a job/your own money.

No job is perfect (not even managing a strip club:D ). If your lazy now, then you'd probably be lazy even if you owed a buisness. there are tree ways of getting money; receive it from somebody (lottery, inheratance...), get a job and earn it, or own a buisness and earn it.

you might want to try and find your self a carrier in something you like.

Or you can be a bum for the rest of your life living of somebody elses misery.:down:
 

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Quit being a pvssy and deal with it. Everyone else has to.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by gambit21680
I think its because i am to lazy to keep a job and don't feel like working just like my dad and i am to fixed on trying to get away and move out
Work as a lifeguard...
 
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