"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Problem I've never encountered

Thundernuts

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Okay so through my post I've discussed how I'm in college and I also spoke about this girl that blew me off last semester with some bull**** cancer story( I know its bull**** for sure )

anyways I've been going NC on cancer girl because I don't have time for her games. I didn't want to say anything to her because she knows a lot of people at the school and I don't want to get a bad rep, things are hard enough already since I'm not from the area.

So I've been talking with some other women, some are from college another and a few others don't go to school right now. One of these girls is a hb8 I met last semester, she shows a lot of interest in me in her actions im just trying to get her away from her friend (also a female but far less attractive). I was speaking with them earlier today at school and cancer girl comes up and interrupts the women and kisses me on the cheek and says "hey" changing her voice a little bit.

I have been avoiding her for months and she pulls this ****.

I already told the other girl all about this chick and the crap she pulled but thing is I don't have her number as everytime I see her around she is with her friend who c0ckblocks me. I didn't make a scene with cancer girl I just told her hey and said goodbye to everyone and walked off.

Cancer girl is an attention wh0re from hell. But I've never had anything like this happen to me before and was wondering what you guys think I should do? If I miss a chance with one woman I can live with that but im more worried about this happening again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay I can understand number one and that sounds like a good plan. I don't know about bomber two tho. The c0ckblock wouldn't be hard to flirt with and all that but thing is she is pretty damn chubby and not attractive I don't know how well that would work for my social proof.
 

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Thundernuts said:
Okay I can understand number one and that sounds like a good plan. I don't know about bomber two tho. The c0ckblock wouldn't be hard to flirt with and all that but thing is she is pretty damn chubby and not attractive I don't know how well that would work for my social proof.


He meant get the chubby one to like you and chase you a bit. NOT the other way around. Act like you like her a little, be funny with her, and give her some attention. DON'T take her out on dates.

If she thinks highly of you, the other one will get competitive and start chasing you.
 

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lol I actually thought he meant that I should do some heavy flirting. Yeah light flirting is doable and sounds like it would work. See I've never done that before, so say it comes down to a scenario where c0ckblock ask me what I think of her friend(my true target) as in if im interested in her or not.

If I say yes c0ckblock could go back to being what she is now. However if I say no c0ckblock could tell her friend that. What would I do in a situation like that. This is all new to me so I really have to ask.
 
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