"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Problem I've never encountered

Thundernuts

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Okay so through my post I've discussed how I'm in college and I also spoke about this girl that blew me off last semester with some bull**** cancer story( I know its bull**** for sure )

anyways I've been going NC on cancer girl because I don't have time for her games. I didn't want to say anything to her because she knows a lot of people at the school and I don't want to get a bad rep, things are hard enough already since I'm not from the area.

So I've been talking with some other women, some are from college another and a few others don't go to school right now. One of these girls is a hb8 I met last semester, she shows a lot of interest in me in her actions im just trying to get her away from her friend (also a female but far less attractive). I was speaking with them earlier today at school and cancer girl comes up and interrupts the women and kisses me on the cheek and says "hey" changing her voice a little bit.

I have been avoiding her for months and she pulls this ****.

I already told the other girl all about this chick and the crap she pulled but thing is I don't have her number as everytime I see her around she is with her friend who c0ckblocks me. I didn't make a scene with cancer girl I just told her hey and said goodbye to everyone and walked off.

Cancer girl is an attention wh0re from hell. But I've never had anything like this happen to me before and was wondering what you guys think I should do? If I miss a chance with one woman I can live with that but im more worried about this happening again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Okay I can understand number one and that sounds like a good plan. I don't know about bomber two tho. The c0ckblock wouldn't be hard to flirt with and all that but thing is she is pretty damn chubby and not attractive I don't know how well that would work for my social proof.
 

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Thundernuts said:
Okay I can understand number one and that sounds like a good plan. I don't know about bomber two tho. The c0ckblock wouldn't be hard to flirt with and all that but thing is she is pretty damn chubby and not attractive I don't know how well that would work for my social proof.


He meant get the chubby one to like you and chase you a bit. NOT the other way around. Act like you like her a little, be funny with her, and give her some attention. DON'T take her out on dates.

If she thinks highly of you, the other one will get competitive and start chasing you.
 

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lol I actually thought he meant that I should do some heavy flirting. Yeah light flirting is doable and sounds like it would work. See I've never done that before, so say it comes down to a scenario where c0ckblock ask me what I think of her friend(my true target) as in if im interested in her or not.

If I say yes c0ckblock could go back to being what she is now. However if I say no c0ckblock could tell her friend that. What would I do in a situation like that. This is all new to me so I really have to ask.
 
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