"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bmal

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I was hanging out with some people tonight, it was 3 guys and 3 girls, i knew the 2 other guys, they were some of my bestfriends, and we knew the girls recently, 1 of the girl had a boyfriend, and the 2 others were single, so 1 of my bestfriend hooked up with one of the girls, and like there was one left, since the other one had a boyfriend, so me and my bestfriend, we were like wtf, i could of pulled a move easily on her, but i didn't want to, if i would of made my bestfriend pissed, like, 2 of us are having action, and hes doing nothing with the other girl, since she has a boyfriend,

i know, this is confusing, but should I pulled a move, and **** my bestfriend, or what help lol :S
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bradshaw

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If you guys are good friends then you should be able to talk to each other about this. If he wants her more than you, don’t be a d1ck and let him have her. Bros before hoes.

However, if he has the attitude of “If I don’t get any, then you can’t either”, I’d say fvck him.
 

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Originally posted by bmal
I was hanging out with some people tonight, it was 3 guys and 3 girls, i knew the 2 other guys, they were some of my bestfriends, and we knew the girls recently, 1 of the girl had a boyfriend, and the 2 others were single, so 1 of my bestfriend hooked up with one of the girls, and like there was one left, since the other one had a boyfriend, so me and my bestfriend, we were like wtf, i could of pulled a move easily on her, but i didn't want to, if i would of made my bestfriend pissed, like, 2 of us are having action, and hes doing nothing with the other girl, since she has a boyfriend,

i know, this is confusing, but should I pulled a move, and **** my bestfriend, or what help lol :S
1st of all what does bros before really mean. I dont think it means both of you go home jerking off cause the other chick had a boyfriend. Aint your fault theres only 1 b!tch. Paper, rock, sissor it up or something. Dont wast that opportunity especially now that your doubting youself.

Where you guys in a public and there were no other girls around? If you were in public I'de take that as a positive. You now have many options. You have social proof right there with the group your in. You can excuse yourself and grab a girl solo or wingman it with your boy.

I know its kind of a "take one for the team" with one guy being left out but that happens to the best of us. If you could go back in time, what would you do?
 
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