"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was hanging out with some people tonight, it was 3 guys and 3 girls, i knew the 2 other guys, they were some of my bestfriends, and we knew the girls recently, 1 of the girl had a boyfriend, and the 2 others were single, so 1 of my bestfriend hooked up with one of the girls, and like there was one left, since the other one had a boyfriend, so me and my bestfriend, we were like wtf, i could of pulled a move easily on her, but i didn't want to, if i would of made my bestfriend pissed, like, 2 of us are having action, and hes doing nothing with the other girl, since she has a boyfriend,

i know, this is confusing, but should I pulled a move, and **** my bestfriend, or what help lol :S
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you guys are good friends then you should be able to talk to each other about this. If he wants her more than you, don’t be a d1ck and let him have her. Bros before hoes.

However, if he has the attitude of “If I don’t get any, then you can’t either”, I’d say fvck him.
 
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Originally posted by bmal
I was hanging out with some people tonight, it was 3 guys and 3 girls, i knew the 2 other guys, they were some of my bestfriends, and we knew the girls recently, 1 of the girl had a boyfriend, and the 2 others were single, so 1 of my bestfriend hooked up with one of the girls, and like there was one left, since the other one had a boyfriend, so me and my bestfriend, we were like wtf, i could of pulled a move easily on her, but i didn't want to, if i would of made my bestfriend pissed, like, 2 of us are having action, and hes doing nothing with the other girl, since she has a boyfriend,

i know, this is confusing, but should I pulled a move, and **** my bestfriend, or what help lol :S
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1st of all what does bros before really mean. I dont think it means both of you go home jerking off cause the other chick had a boyfriend. Aint your fault theres only 1 b!tch. Paper, rock, sissor it up or something. Dont wast that opportunity especially now that your doubting youself.

Where you guys in a public and there were no other girls around? If you were in public I'de take that as a positive. You now have many options. You have social proof right there with the group your in. You can excuse yourself and grab a girl solo or wingman it with your boy.

I know its kind of a "take one for the team" with one guy being left out but that happens to the best of us. If you could go back in time, what would you do?
 
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