"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey my name is alex and i'm new here, and i notice alot of what i read is stuff i do anyways, but really never thought about.

anyways i really ****ed up today. hot girl, i'll call her brittany, comes home from the mall with me. we're watching tv, we start making out i begin fingering her etc...i get her clothes off my **** is out we put the condom on, and...i couldnt get an erection. she wasnt very good at getting me going with her hand, as she had never given a handjob before (but had an eight month relationship in which she had sex about 90 times...lol) anyways i couldnt get a ****ing erection. so i finished her by fingering her, we kept making out, and i taught her how to give a proper handjob to give me something.

anyways, i'm still a virgin (haha she thought i was really experienced too) but i usually make out/finger a girl about every weekend. any tips on keeping things hard?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I actually had the same problem recently. I usually have no problem getting up there when we're making out/ feeling eachother up/ etc.. But a couple of weeks ago, I was fooling around with a hot girl, our clothes came off, and I was aroused but not fully erect. She really didn't know how to properly give a hand job, which definetly would have helped.

I've heard that it's like 90% mental, but idk. Thoughts anyone?
 
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Originally posted by kev me723
I actually had the same problem recently. I usually have no problem getting up there when we're making out/ feeling eachother up/ etc.. But a couple of weeks ago, I was fooling around with a hot girl, our clothes came off, and I was aroused but not fully erect. She really didn't know how to properly give a hand job, which definetly would have helped.

I've heard that it's like 90% mental, but idk. Thoughts anyone?
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exactly the same story here. and when she started giving a handjob good i.e. squeezing pressing hard stuff i was telling her to do i had trouble getting pleasure from it, but i just relaxed and stopped thinking about the fact that a half naked girl was rubbing my penis and i cummed good.

but yeah goddamn i cant believe imissed the chance to get some over a little issue that i usually never have trouble with
 
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Dont jack off for a while so then next time you willl get a woody.:)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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