"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hey my name is alex and i'm new here, and i notice alot of what i read is stuff i do anyways, but really never thought about.

anyways i really ****ed up today. hot girl, i'll call her brittany, comes home from the mall with me. we're watching tv, we start making out i begin fingering her etc...i get her clothes off my **** is out we put the condom on, and...i couldnt get an erection. she wasnt very good at getting me going with her hand, as she had never given a handjob before (but had an eight month relationship in which she had sex about 90 times...lol) anyways i couldnt get a ****ing erection. so i finished her by fingering her, we kept making out, and i taught her how to give a proper handjob to give me something.

anyways, i'm still a virgin (haha she thought i was really experienced too) but i usually make out/finger a girl about every weekend. any tips on keeping things hard?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I actually had the same problem recently. I usually have no problem getting up there when we're making out/ feeling eachother up/ etc.. But a couple of weeks ago, I was fooling around with a hot girl, our clothes came off, and I was aroused but not fully erect. She really didn't know how to properly give a hand job, which definetly would have helped.

I've heard that it's like 90% mental, but idk. Thoughts anyone?
 

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Originally posted by kev me723
I actually had the same problem recently. I usually have no problem getting up there when we're making out/ feeling eachother up/ etc.. But a couple of weeks ago, I was fooling around with a hot girl, our clothes came off, and I was aroused but not fully erect. She really didn't know how to properly give a hand job, which definetly would have helped.

I've heard that it's like 90% mental, but idk. Thoughts anyone?
exactly the same story here. and when she started giving a handjob good i.e. squeezing pressing hard stuff i was telling her to do i had trouble getting pleasure from it, but i just relaxed and stopped thinking about the fact that a half naked girl was rubbing my penis and i cummed good.

but yeah goddamn i cant believe imissed the chance to get some over a little issue that i usually never have trouble with
 

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Dont jack off for a while so then next time you willl get a woody.:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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