“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

problem...confused...

paymon

Don Juan
Joined
May 16, 2005
Messages
35
Reaction score
0
I am in a bit of a confused point right now...my ex-girlfriend and I who have been broken up for a long time now (like 3 or something years b/c she cheated on me) now and we are sorta distant friends now. Lately i've been trying to get her interested in me, and we talked on the phone one time and she did not show much interest as far as the phoen was concerned (she was with her "buddies"). Then this weekend i was outside of this restaurant/club for a friend of mine (who is her roomate as well)'s birthday and she saw me and we greeted and i basically did not give her any attention. Then later on that night i was at the bar chillen with some friends and she came and appoached me to dance, and so i went with her but i just stood there and she asked me why i was not dancing and i told her i did not want to dance with her, then she gave me this look (a mix of dissappointment/disbelief) then i told her when she comes down to austin (where i go to school) we will go to a club. Then i went back to ignoring her and talking to her best friend (who is distantly related to me). Then like 5-10 minutes later she comes back and starts being really flirty (she is a flirt to begin with), then she keeps holding my hand and stuff and putting her hand on my leg and stuff, but i dont really show much attention then we start having some small talk, then she goes off and dances with this guy and apperantly (from a 3rd partys view) she kept on staring at me while she was dancing with him.

-Just wondering what the hell is going on, and whether or not its possible to get back into her pants...(its more of a pride thing than feelings for me)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Alphathree

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2005
Messages
404
Reaction score
1
PRIDE?!!?!?!

If you want PRIDE, stop pursuring someone who cheated on you and who is clearly gaming you for fun.

Get some self-respect...
 

smoke city

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 21, 2004
Messages
197
Reaction score
0
amen, alphathree.
i admit this is a waste of space, but it must be emphasized.



paymon, what the HELL are you THINKING?
 
Top