"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cfdagola

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so i attempted to probe this cute HB at work if she had a boyfriend.

i basically asked her what she did for the Holiday. and i anticipated her saying she was with family etc.. etc.. and also her boyfriend did something nice for her or something along those lines.

and while i got half what i anticipated not once did she mention a boyfriend. now i also didn't ask. "well what did you and your b/f do" normally when you ask a girl with a broad question like that especially when it comes to something like a festive get together 9/10 times the chick brings up a bf if she has one.

so i came to two conclusions.

either she has a b/f and she didn't bring him up because the relationship is going south. or she doesn't have one.

pretty simple conclusions both are in my favor. because this girl when i talk to her has the brightest smile and that i wanna eat you up look in her eye. again in my opinion.

thoughts though. because sometimes at work its hard to differentiate a work flirt from a real flirt.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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alpha_ash

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You don't **** where you eat. The consequences of a relationship that goes south at a workplace are dire! I don't date or even go out with women at work and I am one of two male employees. The rest are female. I pretend to be a nice guy at work ;D
 

zekko

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alpha_ash said:
You don't **** where you eat. The consequences of a relationship that goes south at a workplace are dire!
That's good advice, but a lot of people do it.
Work is one of the most common places couples meet, even though it's considered a big taboo here.
 

Trailboss

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If you don't value your job that much: go for it! Keep it out of the workplace though. If you are a total Pro at work, utterly professional in every way, then it's harder for her to make you look bad to everyone else if things don't go her way and she gets dramatic about it....
 

omega05

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zekko said:
That's good advice, but a lot of people do it.
Work is one of the most common places couples meet, even though it's considered a big taboo here.
this. where i work at, there are couples and husband/wives so all this "dont s where you eat" doesnt make sense to me
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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