"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Probed her if she had a boyfriend by...

cfdagola

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so i attempted to probe this cute HB at work if she had a boyfriend.

i basically asked her what she did for the Holiday. and i anticipated her saying she was with family etc.. etc.. and also her boyfriend did something nice for her or something along those lines.

and while i got half what i anticipated not once did she mention a boyfriend. now i also didn't ask. "well what did you and your b/f do" normally when you ask a girl with a broad question like that especially when it comes to something like a festive get together 9/10 times the chick brings up a bf if she has one.

so i came to two conclusions.

either she has a b/f and she didn't bring him up because the relationship is going south. or she doesn't have one.

pretty simple conclusions both are in my favor. because this girl when i talk to her has the brightest smile and that i wanna eat you up look in her eye. again in my opinion.

thoughts though. because sometimes at work its hard to differentiate a work flirt from a real flirt.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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alpha_ash

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You don't **** where you eat. The consequences of a relationship that goes south at a workplace are dire! I don't date or even go out with women at work and I am one of two male employees. The rest are female. I pretend to be a nice guy at work ;D
 

zekko

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alpha_ash said:
You don't **** where you eat. The consequences of a relationship that goes south at a workplace are dire!
That's good advice, but a lot of people do it.
Work is one of the most common places couples meet, even though it's considered a big taboo here.
 

Trailboss

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If you don't value your job that much: go for it! Keep it out of the workplace though. If you are a total Pro at work, utterly professional in every way, then it's harder for her to make you look bad to everyone else if things don't go her way and she gets dramatic about it....
 

omega05

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zekko said:
That's good advice, but a lot of people do it.
Work is one of the most common places couples meet, even though it's considered a big taboo here.
this. where i work at, there are couples and husband/wives so all this "dont s where you eat" doesnt make sense to me
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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