"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Probably Immature of me, but something trivial has been bothering me with my GF.

Zarky

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Ok, come back to this thread after she dumps you, and then begin to learn.

First lesson:

4 girls = 4 girls
3 girls = 3 girls
2 girls = 2 girls
1 girl = 0 girls
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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so when I was dating multiple women and chose this one to get exclusive with i was wrong?

I don't disagree with you. dating multiple women is fine, i do that, I'm no longer dating, it's turned into a relationship.
 

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I wouldn't say you were "wrong," but the question is why would you ever limit yourself to one woman? Just because it's what society tells you to do? Think about it. Monogamy is a societal construct, it generally favors women and disfavors men. Why would you involve yourself with it?
 
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