Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Probably Immature of me, but something trivial has been bothering me with my GF.

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Ok, come back to this thread after she dumps you, and then begin to learn.

First lesson:

4 girls = 4 girls
3 girls = 3 girls
2 girls = 2 girls
1 girl = 0 girls
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so when I was dating multiple women and chose this one to get exclusive with i was wrong?

I don't disagree with you. dating multiple women is fine, i do that, I'm no longer dating, it's turned into a relationship.
 
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I wouldn't say you were "wrong," but the question is why would you ever limit yourself to one woman? Just because it's what society tells you to do? Think about it. Monogamy is a societal construct, it generally favors women and disfavors men. Why would you involve yourself with it?
 
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