"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Probably goin on a date with a chick already goin out with someone

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So i'm texting this one chick (bad i know) and we're makin a bet on a track meet, with who would win, so i said "if my school wins we go to the movies" (supposed to bad?), she texts back "damn u stole mine!, lol if i win...u take me to eat lol".

What would u guys do? I know i should be findin out for myself or whatever else, but she has a bf, even though she's never told me about him, i saw it on her myspace, so to me it just like makes it confusing.

Another thing though is she seems really interested. I had told her jokingly that she would have to give me lessons or somethin stupid cuz, she plays softball, and she said that i would have to give her wrestling lessons and some stuff.

Well we're textin yesterday and i startin usin some push/pull on her, and i told her somethin about bein fiesty, and she said "i'm usually pretty chill but i can get pretty crazy if u want?". i said somethin about wantin to see it and she said "lol well when u teach me to wrestle ill show u ;)", so i was like "i can't wait lol" she said "lol me too". I then said "ooh is there gonna be a bed involved" (just tryin stuff out not sure if it's good or not) so she said "do u want there to be?" i said "sure lol" and she put "otay lol" she messed up but whatever.

So i'm confused i guess about what to do.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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He's at a different school than you are so just go for it. However don't waste too much time on her, if she gives you any LMR, bail and cut all ties with her. She could be setting you up as an orbiter (she might be a branch swinging monkey) or she could be ready to move on or she could just be looking for some fun (the ideal scenario).

Just be fun and exciting around her, kino, escalate.
 
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Last Minute Resistance. Basically with any resistance from her, I would bail because she does have a b/f and is likely just an AW (attention hor).
 
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I wanna keep her around or maybe try to cuz, prom is in 3 saturdays and I was really only thinkin of maybe askin her or some other chick, but i took to long and the other chick is already goin with someone, so i'm not sure.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just ask her then. If you can't get a date from your school and she says No I have a b/f, tell her that your not asking to marry her, your just asking her to accompany to your Prom cuz none of the girls at your school are as cool as her.
 
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