"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Probably goin on a date with a chick already goin out with someone

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So i'm texting this one chick (bad i know) and we're makin a bet on a track meet, with who would win, so i said "if my school wins we go to the movies" (supposed to bad?), she texts back "damn u stole mine!, lol if i win...u take me to eat lol".

What would u guys do? I know i should be findin out for myself or whatever else, but she has a bf, even though she's never told me about him, i saw it on her myspace, so to me it just like makes it confusing.

Another thing though is she seems really interested. I had told her jokingly that she would have to give me lessons or somethin stupid cuz, she plays softball, and she said that i would have to give her wrestling lessons and some stuff.

Well we're textin yesterday and i startin usin some push/pull on her, and i told her somethin about bein fiesty, and she said "i'm usually pretty chill but i can get pretty crazy if u want?". i said somethin about wantin to see it and she said "lol well when u teach me to wrestle ill show u ;)", so i was like "i can't wait lol" she said "lol me too". I then said "ooh is there gonna be a bed involved" (just tryin stuff out not sure if it's good or not) so she said "do u want there to be?" i said "sure lol" and she put "otay lol" she messed up but whatever.

So i'm confused i guess about what to do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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He's at a different school than you are so just go for it. However don't waste too much time on her, if she gives you any LMR, bail and cut all ties with her. She could be setting you up as an orbiter (she might be a branch swinging monkey) or she could be ready to move on or she could just be looking for some fun (the ideal scenario).

Just be fun and exciting around her, kino, escalate.
 
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Last Minute Resistance. Basically with any resistance from her, I would bail because she does have a b/f and is likely just an AW (attention hor).
 
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I wanna keep her around or maybe try to cuz, prom is in 3 saturdays and I was really only thinkin of maybe askin her or some other chick, but i took to long and the other chick is already goin with someone, so i'm not sure.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Just ask her then. If you can't get a date from your school and she says No I have a b/f, tell her that your not asking to marry her, your just asking her to accompany to your Prom cuz none of the girls at your school are as cool as her.
 
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