"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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probably an easy one for anyone with game

legomydago

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this girl and i have been close for a couple years now, fooled around a few times never any sex...i didnt see her all summer untill the other day..over the summer she fell in love with some guy on vacation in aruba and is head over heels for him....we got together the other night, had a great night at a bar, alone just having some drinks and real good convo..playful touch, amazing connection etc...then she whispered in my ear that she really wanted to kiss me, ..but couldnt because she is with this guy....i got immediately turned off but tried to play it cool...she noticed i was a little different in demeanor tho...pretty much went home after that and havent talked to her in a couple days now...how should i approach this situation from now on....any advice is appreciated
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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that was a s*** test. Respond, "I won't tell" back in her ear, kiss her and escalate it yourself.... or simply kiss her without responding verbally. The boyfriend she fell in love with is 100% her problem, not yours.

Besides if the guy is still in aruba, aruba has another name; BFE.

Azanon
 

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You whisper in her ear "like this?", and slowly move your lips over and give her a god damn knock out kiss.
 
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"how should i approach this situation from now on."

You shouldn't...you should approach more girls.

10 a week is the min.
40 a month.

Go...don't say another word.

Oh and I forgot
:rockon:
Rock On
 
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