"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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probably an easy one for anyone with game

legomydago

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this girl and i have been close for a couple years now, fooled around a few times never any sex...i didnt see her all summer untill the other day..over the summer she fell in love with some guy on vacation in aruba and is head over heels for him....we got together the other night, had a great night at a bar, alone just having some drinks and real good convo..playful touch, amazing connection etc...then she whispered in my ear that she really wanted to kiss me, ..but couldnt because she is with this guy....i got immediately turned off but tried to play it cool...she noticed i was a little different in demeanor tho...pretty much went home after that and havent talked to her in a couple days now...how should i approach this situation from now on....any advice is appreciated
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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that was a s*** test. Respond, "I won't tell" back in her ear, kiss her and escalate it yourself.... or simply kiss her without responding verbally. The boyfriend she fell in love with is 100% her problem, not yours.

Besides if the guy is still in aruba, aruba has another name; BFE.

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You whisper in her ear "like this?", and slowly move your lips over and give her a god damn knock out kiss.
 
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"how should i approach this situation from now on."

You shouldn't...you should approach more girls.

10 a week is the min.
40 a month.

Go...don't say another word.

Oh and I forgot
:rockon:
Rock On
 
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